Feeling the load

David, Pei Chyi & Zachary-8

I’m now in my week 29 of the pregnancy (approx 7 months in) and I’m definitely feeling the load of carrying Muffin Zachary. The 2 flights of stairs to the office is like Mr Wolf huffin-a-puffin’, the 8 hours I sit at my desk at work is like resting on a sharp concrete slab, I wake up to pee in the middle of the night like as if my bladder has just reduced its size by 50% AND back aches are an everyday affair.

I have a pillow on my back to keep me on my side, one between my legs to reduce leg cramps (which btw isn’t 100% effective, had a cramp attack last nite!), one to hug and one for my head to rest on. I feel like I’ve built a bunker around me—poor David can’t even get close!

I have really fugly stretchmarks that I had tried to prevent with all these so called creams but failed miserably when they started appearing bit by bit by bit. My mom had them so I blame my mom it on genetics. And, my body temperature is probably up by 1°C cos I’m so warm all the time!

I can’t get close enough to the kitchen sink to do dishes without getting water everywhere (ok this one is like me making an excuse so David would do the dishes, even at my mom’s!) and I find it so hard to get up from the couch without him helping me up. I really do feel like a beached whale on shore! And I’ve stopped baking religiously cos I just can’t take the heat and the standing-up-for-long-periods-of-time. I really do miss baking and I’m pretty bummed that I won’t be baking any CNY goodies this time around.

But even with all the inconvenience and changes I have gone through (and more to come for sure), I am really anxious that baby will be arriving in less than 10 weeks! I can’t wait to see his face, hold his small fragile body, touch his wriggly fingers and tickle his little toes. That said, 10 weeks will zoom by before we know it and I still need to interview 2 babysitters, attend pre-natal classes, buy his cot and stock up on my TVB dramas to watch during my confinement period. So much to do so little time!

12 Responses to Feeling the load
  1. blogjunkie
    January 21, 2010 | 2:52 pm

    Vernon says he not pregnant but also got stretch marks. Don’t worry la..

    I can’t wait for Baby Zach too :)

  2. Grace
    January 21, 2010 | 2:56 pm

    I can’t wait too! heheh

  3. peichyi
    January 21, 2010 | 2:58 pm

    i can’t wait three!

  4. tAuRus
    January 21, 2010 | 4:22 pm

    I can’t wait *FOUR* like elmo!!! wheeeeeeeeeee

  5. eMs
    January 22, 2010 | 12:15 pm

    Tell me all about it the beached whale thing. I felt like a penguin walking when I was in my third trimester and back pain can always be used as a good excuse for David to give you back massages. =)

    And about the TV dramas during confinement, trust me when I say, at every single minute you are free, either you just want to quickly snag a few eyeshut or just want to hop into the shower to washup to feel fresh and ready to face the every one/two hour waking up crying baby for feed… but in all, its a wonderful experience.. =)

  6. Chris Wei
    January 28, 2010 | 9:49 am

    Babe, did you get bio oil? It’s apparently the must have to ward off those disgusting stretch marks.

  7. peichyi
    January 28, 2010 | 9:51 am

    i heard about this bio-oil and also was told to get Palmers.
    am going to look at the pharmacy this weekend!

  8. Leona
    January 29, 2010 | 10:26 pm

    Ehem, pregnant or not, I always think men should do the dishes coz women do the cooking. Ems has a point, in between checking mails, Twitter n baby, there’s not much time for dramas coz sleep becomes for important.

  9. Celena
    February 10, 2010 | 11:25 am

    glad to know your pregnancy is going smoothly!! enjoy it while you can, life will be topsy turvy after the little one comes out :) mine’s 4 wks old and everything’s topsy turvy

    how’s the search for a babysitter? do u have any to recommend in kota kemuning area?

  10. peichyi
    February 26, 2010 | 5:31 pm

    hey celena! didn’t notice ur comment till like 5 mins ago! i still haven’t had any luck finding babysitters in KK. do u know any?

  11. Celena
    March 15, 2010 | 5:30 pm

    and I didnt notice your reply until just now :D :D I amd sending my baby to my mom’s place in Subang, don’t know any babysitters in KK as well :(

    Goodluck with the breastfeeding ok!

  12. peichyi
    March 15, 2010 | 5:32 pm

    hey Celena! yea i gave up looking for one so i’ve put in an application to hire a Filipino maid. My husband works from home so he’ll be the house-husband, and mom will take over when he needs to go out for meetings etc.

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